Dear Paws to Talk,

I know it sounds cliché but I am looking for my true love. A man to share my life with.

I am in my early thirties and take part in the dating scene but am so tired of looking for my soul mate. I want an honest, funny and kind man who wants to have a family. 

When will I find the love of my life?

-Paula the Human

Howl Paula,

We hate waiting for something wonderful, especially in the morning when we are starving and the humans take ages to make our breakfast. How complicated is it to put some leftover salmon on top of premium kibble? Not very!

Anyways, to us it sounds like you know what you want. However, we wonder if you are really taking full advantage of the dating scene. Maybe your true love will look different than you imagined? Perhaps, you have already met him but you didn’t like the way his fur was cut so he has escaped your mind? Make sure you aren’t discounting anyone.

That being said, from what we know about dating (we have each dated for years and so have our human sisters) a lot of time you have to make your way through the weeds until you find your rose garden. This is so frustrating especially when you feel ready for true love.

Unfortunately, we don’t know when your love will come. If you make sure to be open on your dates and not hover in the weeds then we can promise he will arrive. Whatever you do, don’t give up hope.

Lastly, this may also be a question for the universe or the big dog in the sky or whatever you believe in. Make it known what you want. Sometimes all you have to do is ask. It works almost every time for us when we want a treat. So bark for your true love!


Bella and DiDi


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